CHASTITY BONDAGE BDSM

The Top 5 Chastity Bondage Tips for BDSM beginners

 

If you’re new to chastity bondage and the BDSM scene, you may be wondering where to start. One of the most crucial aspects of BDSM is trust, and starting off with chastity bondage can be an excellent way to build that trust in your relationship. To make sure that both you and your partner have the best experience possible, keep these five tips in mind when practicing chastity bondage or other forms of BDSM with a partner for the first time.

 

1) Know Yourself

Before you can even begin to enjoy chastity bondage, you need to know what turns you on. What are your hard limits? What are your kinks and fetishes? If you’re not sure, that’s okay! Talk to your partner about what they’re into and see if anything strikes your fancy. If you’re both on the same page, then you can move on to the next tip. Otherwise, reevaluate whether or not this is a good idea. Remember, all play should be consensual between two or more people. Also, it never hurts to read up on different aspects of chastity bondage before taking any steps towards trying it out with your partner(s).

 

2) Communicate With Your Partner

When it comes to any kind of bondage, communication is key. If you’re interested in trying chastity bondage, talk to your partner about it beforehand. Discuss what you’re both interested in and what your boundaries are. It’s also important to have a safe word that either of you can use if things get too intense. Most people will choose something like red or safe word. But no matter what words you pick, make sure that everyone knows them and has agreed on them beforehand. For example, if someone picks the word chocolate as their safe word, then they should not say I’m done with this, because that could be interpreted as chocolate. In order to exit the scene, people typically tap out three times, count down from five, or simply say stop. And before starting a scene with BDSM chastity bondage, it’s crucial to review consent again – who is participating and what each person agrees to do – so there are no surprises once the ropes come out!

 

3) Explore What Excites You Both

When it comes to BDSM chastity, it’s important to explore what excites you both. What are your kinks and fetishes? What are your hard limits? What are your safe words? By exploring these things together, you’ll be able to create a scene that is both safe and sexy. We recommend finding an experienced Dom or Domme who can guide you through the process of playing with BDSM chastity in the bedroom. When looking for a partner, ask questions about their desires and expectations. Take into consideration if this person would make a good long-term partner. Even if they don’t end up being someone you pursue further down the line, they may have some helpful tips on how to get started with chastity bondage or BDSM chastity. There are plenty of people in the world that have experienced either one or both at some point so there should be no shortage of resources available when looking for advice!

 

4) Shop for the Right Device and Lube

BDSM chastity can be a fun and thrilling experience for both partners. However, before you jump into the deep end, there are a few things you should know. First, you need to make sure you have the right device. There are many different types of chastity devices on the market, so it’s important to do your research and find one that’s comfortable and safe for you. Second, you’ll need to buy some lube. This will help make putting on the device easier and more comfortable. When it comes to picking out what type of lube, silicone-based lubricant is best because it won’t dry up as quickly as a water-based lubricant. Keep these tips in mind before engaging in BDSM chastity with your partner!

 

 

 

 

 

5) Experiment with Sensual Touch

Before you even start thinking about chastity, it’s important to experiment with different types of touch. This will help you and your partner figure out what gets you both hot and bothered. Try incorporating some light bondage during sex to see if it heightens your pleasure. If it does, then you may be ready to take the next step… as long as your partner is on board too!

 

Final thoughts!

Assuming you and your partner have decided to add chastity bondage to your sex life, here are five tips to get you started.

 

1. Talk about it! Discussing your desire to try chastity bondage with your partner is essential. You need to make sure that you’re both on the same page and comfortable with the idea before moving forward.

 

2. Set some ground rules. Once you’ve decided to give it a go, take some time to sit down and establish a few ground rules. What are the boundaries? What is off-limits? What are the safe words?

 

3. Get the right equipment. A good quality chastity device is key to a successful experience. Do some research and find one that fits both your needs and budget.

 

4. Take things slowly. Take things slow if they seem too intense. Start by introducing some light touches or teasing strokes and work your way up from there. If all goes well, you’ll be in the position of making him beg for release in no time at all!